Women aged 65 and over are urged to seek out support if they are facing any form of abuse.
Safety Net is working with Age UK Carlisle and Eden to connect with women aged 65-plus.
While data is patchy – the British Crime Survey did not even ask women aged 65-plus about their experiences of abuse until the last few years – the best available estimate is that one in six UK adults aged 60-plus experience some form of abuse each year.
Of victims that are known to services, research from SafeLives shows that women aged 61 and older are more likely to face abuse from partners or family members compared to younger women. Older victims are also less likely to leave their abusers than younger ones.
Last year, Safety Net supported 771 women in Cumbria. Only 19 of them were aged 65 or older.
The charity said: “Given that about a quarter of Cumbria’s female population is in this age group, we should be seeing many more older women seeking support.”
So why don’t they come forward?
The charity says:
- Older women grew up in a time when abuse was often seen as a private family matter, making it harder for them to recognise it and seek help.
- Women aged 65-plus are also more likely to face abuse from family members, making it difficult for them to ‘leave’.
- Disabilities, mobility issues, or care needs may make older women more dependent on their abusers.
- There’s often a lack of support networks and accessible housing options for older women, leaving them trapped and unable to reach out for help.
What is Safety Net doing about it?
People can call the charity on 01228 515859 or email [email protected].
It is hosting a coffee and support morning at Carlisle Town Hall on Friday, March 8, from 10am to noon, in partnership with Age UK Carlisle and Eden.
Trained advisors will provide free, confidential advice and support, and Age UK Carlisle and Eden will be available to offer housing, financial and practical advice.
A Safety Net spokesman added: “We’re also asking everyone to be alert for signs of abuse in older individuals, such as unexplained injuries, a withdrawn demeanour, or financial exploitation.
“If you’re worried about someone, reach out to them or direct them to us – there’s some great tips on how to broach a conversation on this topic on the Refuge website.
“If you or someone you know needs support, don’t hesitate to get in touch with us today.”
